Ok, you Windows gurus! I need your help.
For an old XP SP3 system, I have Automatic Updates set to "Download updates for me, but let me choose when to install them."
Its little update shield icon appears in the systray when it has downloaded updates and is ready for me to apply them.
But under certain conditions (like apparently if you ignore the little update shield icon for too long), Windows decides to "help" you apply the updates when it thinks you should. Specifically, when you try to shutdown, the shutdown icon has the little emblem showing that Windows will autumatically apply the updates for you when you shutdown.
But I don't want that! I want to use CUSTOM settings for the updates, which Windows denies to me when I'm forced to apply its updates on shutdown.
How can I regain control of updates -- CUSTOM -- after Windows has decided to force me to apply them all automatically during shutdown?
Thank you.