My last project, I made a demo program in Swing and after that the guy I was working with didn't want to see it or even log on to the file-sharing program to hear about it, and I also emailed him - he never even looked at it, never logged in again, even though it was his choice of file-sharing program that I downloaded and installed to be able to communicate with him - he made a point I use his work computer for it - then he never logs on and months later I return the computer to his employer. Emailed him months later, recently, after he sent me a job ad (for Australia), but when I responded about the program, no response.
It definitely killed my interest in programming, which I was successful accomplishing things in at the time. You now how we put in an all-nighter, so thrilled, and the other person, it's like you shot their mother. His excuse was that he wanted to be able to control everything himself, in Access, but he is a walking database of domain information as it is. I think the "controlling" thing was the reason.
I hate when some people, their job is to motivate others for a living, and I mean that is their job, and their entire job, but they figure they need you to get what they want done and entice, but in the end they just want it how they want it and that's it. And if they want you to believe that the sky is pink with purple-polka dots, then they want you to believe that, that is the point. They don't want to hear reality from you, the newcomer. They are usually brilliant at something, but then do this misplaced tranference thing where they thereby assume they must be commander of other things as well.