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2. If you made a mistake calling him... GET OFF THE PHONE ASAP. With a REAL apology, that you really mean.
I agree with you up to a point about the point you are making.
Make sure you know what you are doing. but...
A lot of people here have been in the Information Technology for 10,20,30+ years.
That is getting rarer and rarer these days.
Just being around that long means you have seen a lot, and made observations of what works and what does not work which is very valuable in itself.
Trust me unless you get into a major shouting match throwing insults, with all the calls they get constantly, there is a very high probability that they will not even remember you from just one call.
So Don't be so uptight about being perfect, if things don't go exactly the way you thought they would just make the proper adjustments next time.
My point is that people tend to treat you according to the image you project.
If you project an image of confidence, competence that deserves respect the majority of people will treat you that way.
If you go in hesitating, apologizing for breathing, showing no reason for deserving any respect the majority of people will not give you any respect.