Hi, Richard.
I recently re-joined BNI, but I don't really expect to get many referrals from it. When I was in before (2001-2004), I got maybe 5 legit referrals that put $ in my pocket. What I got that was more important as a start-up, was an opportunity to talk up my biz once a week, fine tune my elevator speech, and develop a circle of local business folks where I would be likely to see at least a few friendly faces when I would choose to go to Chamber activities. For awhile I was pretty good a helping other folks build relationships. My dentist still gives me the royal treatment because I sent several chapter members to him.
That said, the primary reason I shelled out $370 this time around is that, working from home, I had gotten into some bad habits. So now, one morning a week, I have to get up and make myself presentable and speak coherently in front of folks I barely know. I'm trying to get out more, increase my visibility and level of trust in the community. This is one way to help me do that.
YMMV. A lot does depend on the local chapter and regional director (franchise owner). You can visit each chapter up to two times before deciding if (which) to join. After you join, if there is no conflict, you can still occassionally visit other sister chapters. You would be expected at some point to do a turn at various leadership roles, the terms of which are six months. You get a break on dues if you are Pres, VP or Sec/Treas of your chapter. Other, non-compensated positions are Visitor Host, Education Coordinator, and Membership Committee. They will put considerable pressure on you to bring referrals, testimonials and visitors to each meeting... but that's the whole point. Chapters with at least 20 members are self-sustaining. Less than that seem to struggle. If attending every week is a hardship, they allow you to send a substitute to do your 60-second speech for you.
I hope this helps.
Regards,
-DG